Monday, April 29, 2013

I don't just talk to myself...I write letters as well

Dear Natalie Skidmore,

Congratulations on finishing your student teaching semester with your sanity still (mostly) intact. This may be premature, as there are still a couple of required weeks left, but I can see the light at the end of the tunnel and I'm sure you'll make it through! This semester has been a whirlwind of activity, I know, but I hope you feel that you've learned a lot and have become a better teacher because of it.

When you first began student teaching you were enthusiastic, excited, and passionate about the craft. NEVER LOSE THAT. There is a reason teachers start out with passion, and I believe it is because this profession is one of the greatest in the world. What could be better than waking up each day and getting to go work with young people and educate the future of our country? Not much. However, I do need you to realize that the students will NOT always appreciate how hard you work, how much you care, or how much thought you put into the class activities. This is not because they hate you, or think you're weird (even though they definitely do), or want to make your life miserable. They will act this way, on occasion, because they are teenagers, high schoolers, essentially still kids, and they haven't learned how to act appropriately yet.

At times this will be overwhelmingly frustrating. Your late nights spent planning and replanning lessons to engage the students and make learning fun will occasionally seem useless. That "awesome" activity you worked so hard on will be received with statements like "This is stupid. Why do we have to do this?" And you will have to take a deep breath, remind yourself that they are not attacking you personally, and use these questions as a learning opportunity. You will spend entire days reminding students to get to work, and trying to explain why your activities and assignments are important. But, you WILL make sure that you can justify every assignment you give, because you know that work without a purpose only hurts you and your students.

Above all, use what you learned during student teaching to become a better person and teacher. There have been good and bad experiences, but they are ALL learning opportunities. Don't get caught up in petty, meaningless thoughts and discussions. Keep your head held high, and always think about what is best for you and your students. You may be a student TEACHER, but this is a learning experience. And you will experience a lot.

You will be proud.
You will laugh.
You will get to know students and never want to leave.
You will cry (but only when no one is around)
You will experience more frustration than you have ever known.
You will be overwhelmed by pride.
You will doubt yourself.
You will be proud of yourself.
You will work hard.
You will work harder.

YOU
will succeed.

3 comments:

  1. Natalie,

    YOU go girl! I loved this letter! So inspiring! If only I could have read something like this prior to starting the semester out. It's amazing how quickly this semester went by. I am going to miss seeing your enthusiastic self around at the schools! You will bring so much joy and happiness to your administrators, peers, and students! Congratulations on making this far, and I'm so glad to have gone through this experience with you! You have been such a great support, and I've loved having you to talk to when things were getting rough. Couldn't have survived without you, dear! Best of luck next year at Robinson -- I'm so proud of you!

    Ms. A

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  2. I love the title of you blog, it is definitely you! You are going to be great and those kids are going to love having that crazy Miss Skidmore. I have to say that you have been a wonderful friend and a fantastic member of our support team. It’s amazing that we all achieved so much, but I guess we have more in common than we thought.
    I am also proud.
    I have laughed.
    I have gotten to know students I never want to leave.
    I have wanted to cry (but only when no one is around)
    I have experience more frustration than I’ve ever known.
    I have been overwhelmed by pride.
    I have doubted myself.
    I have been proud of myself.
    I have worked hard.
    And I have worked harder.

    You are not alone! Bravo Miss Skidmore! Bravo!

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  3. Dear Younger Natalie Skidmore,

    Your future self is one smart cookie. She knows what she is talking about. You will doubt yourself, your student's will call your greaat lesson "stupid." Don't worry about those things remember that you will make it through with some of your sanity. You will be doing better then me. Also it's not talking to yourself; it's just thinking out loud!!!

    And whatever you do, make the Butch!!!

    Have fun with what is to come!!!

    Your future classmate
    Shannon

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